30 Year Old Woman, Married at 17,Says Year 10 Of Marriage Is The Hardest
In 2018, it is pretty rare to find a lady marrying at 17. However, this used to happen and both men and women used to enter into early marriages. The average age marriages happen has gone up. A tweep went online to offer advice on how she has survived marriage for 13 years.
I was married at 17 yrs old and have been married for 13 yrs, I am 30yrs old with 3 kids— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
A “survival” thread for young wives (and lessons I have learnt)...
Start a trust with H, put everything you own in the trust. It must be divorce, death and individuals incapacitated proof.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Start your empire early. The sooner you experience the knocks the quicker you will recover.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Children are very very very expensive both financially and emotionally, think about it carefully.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Children are very very very expensive both financially and emotionally, think about it carefully.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Don’t assume anything with your partner. Communicate everything even about his mother. Be honest.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
You will already be short changed. Get used to it now. You won’t win.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
He will hurt you, really really damage you. No one will ever understand and sometimes you don’t either. I don’t know what else to tell you but the fact that it hurts. Just find a healthy way to deal with it.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Twitter/social media is a fantasy. It’s not real life. Don’t make decisions or change who you are to be appealing to social media. Social media is a loners paradise, you have a life, a husband and family, focus on that.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Communicate your ambitions from the very beginning. Don’t give an impression to a man that you are ok with what he can provide kanti wena you want more.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Friends are not your measuring stick to your success. Don’t compare your marriage. Some people compromise and sacrifice too much to be where they are. Just stick to the family vision and forget the noise.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Your husbands’ friends are not your friends. When they call you iVrou, know that you are being taken for a poes.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Your husband is your friend. You have people you kee kee with but they are not your friends.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Pillow talk and gossip are essential on a daily basis. This is how you will be able to really analyze his mind, his associates and advise him strategically.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Everything you were told when the antis held you in a room before your wedding, is true. The 10yr mark is the hardest and where you experience most of the horrors of marriage. Stay strong, understand why you are there.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Depression is real, don’t be silent. Go to a therapist. Encourage H to go to couples therapy before 💩 hits the fan.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Educate yourself. Make some cash on the side with a small business or whatever, just don’t get used to being handed things. Men keep scores, they won’t remember what you did but will definitely remember what you didn’t do and what he did.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Never talk about your marriage to friends. Just don’t.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
If your mom is still married to your dad or until his death listen to her. She will save you years of heartache. And she has endured more than you can ever imagine, appreciate her, love on her but don’t let her be the sounding board of your marriage.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Stay in tune with the rhythm of your relationship. Don’t suddenly dance to gqom kanti y’all have been cruising to RnB all along.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
I am sure there are many more advises and lessons learnt but I am still young and new to being married, I have still got so much to learn and unlearn.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
One more thing... be quick to forgive. Grudges will only set you back and yena just prosper.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
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Respect your in laws they are not your friends no matter how close y’all are.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
Respect your in laws they are not your friends no matter how close y’all are.— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
If you are selfish, don’t bother with marriage. KaMarriage you eat your pride with fork and knife, even when you are right mntase 🤷🏾♀️— Mphephethwa (@MaBhusulaGc) June 29, 2018
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